Have you dealt with the power of family consensus......when the 'rule of family'........no longer makes any real sense and......only offers..........the illusion.........of 'shelter'........from loneliness ?
It takes time and effort to seek places of greater understanding of ....what it means to be human.
The effort shakes the very foundations of most of what we are instructed with......... regarding social behavior.
Those of us who are raised by parents who take care......usually have a harder time trying to sort truth......from hypocrisy.
Do you like the statement that "Love is unconditional".......then you've adopted a condition.......for love.
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you're asking some tough questions here. i think we've all, at one time or another, 'sold our soul to the devil'. it's whether we can get it back though, what counts...
I don't believe anymore about love being unconditional.
I was out of the blog world for long and I missed being here in your place.
Nice post, as usual. Very profound and insightful. The piece shows how important the gift of discernment is.
Your thoughts reflect the strong person you are, and the gentle soul you bear. Your wisdom makes each word hit a bull's eye.
Love is.
lovely <3
learning to love without condition is to love the soul of the person without having to like the actual person...almost impossible for most...except for your children...they come to you, without knowing who they are, without meeting them, the instant you know you carry them you love them..no conditions...but it's not something you choose, it's something that's gifted to you...other than that...choosing to love unconditionally....not a very human way to be....
Lately...with my children...I've been a non interfering parent...it's completely changed the dynamic of our lives...they do the things they need to do to be whole and I guide them...the only rules are those of respect for humans, animals and property...it's going well....but even if it weren't I'd still love them!
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